Undead & Unbothered 

Notes from Grim Reapers in Training (G.R.I.T.s)


A pep talk blog for the overlooked, the over-it, and the afterlife-adjacent.

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Surviving the Worst Days (Even the Ones That Smell Like Regret and Burnt Toast)

Pep Talk from Tariq (Certified Chaos Magnet, Shadow Strategist, Big Brother with Opinions):

Here’s the deal: you’re allowed to have awful days.
Days where the best you can do is show up looking like a chaos gremlin with unbrushed hair and survival-level vibes.
You’re allowed to be mad, tired, lost, petty, unproductive, or one dropped pen away from losing it entirely.
You don’t have to be a hero today.

You just have to hold the line.

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Cleared For A Little Chaos

A pep talk from Tariq.

Okay. Whoa. You’re freaking out. That’s fair.

You’re standing knee-deep in doom soup, the sky’s doing that weird flickery thing again, and you probably just found out your name popped up on Lady Death’s list. I get it. I've been there. Twice before breakfast. I am a reaper after all.

But hey—breathe. You’re not toast yet.

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